This Flattering Flight Attendant Code Word Isn't As Good As It Sounds

You may never actually see most of the jobs that flight attendants have to take care of beyond greeting you as you enter the plane and bringing refreshments. However, they are also responsible for things like the safety of passengers, first aid if needed, and even keeping an eye out for signs of human trafficking. Another thing you might not know is that they have code words to let each other know about any pressing situations on board. For instance, you may hear "Code Adam" if a child is missing on a flight or "300" if someone is having a medical emergency (or worse). Though not as serious, if you hear flight attendants call someone a "mermaid," let's just say it isn't a compliment. The same goes for cabin crew naming a passenger "VIP."

Generally, when you're referred to as a VIP, it means you're a very important person, and you're probably about to be treated with extra courtesy and maybe even some perks. However, that's not the case on a plane. In flight attendant speak, VIP is code for "very irritating passenger" or "very irritating person." You may hear it used to refer to someone who is being demanding or making numerous requests on board, but not enough that the flight attendant can do much to stop it.

A VIP isn't the only term used for annoying passengers. You may hear someone called a "PITA" as well, which means "pain in the a**," according to Jay Robert, a former senior cabin crew member for Emirates who spoke to the Mirror in 2024. While this might initially shock you, keep in mind that it's not exactly uncommon for service workers to discreetly talk about irritating customers. Plus, this isn't a place you can leave if someone is being obnoxious. No matter what happens, you're all stuck together in the air. That said, there are things you can do to lessen the burden placed on the people responsible for your comfort and safety in the skies.

First, remember to treat cabin crew with courtesy. Not only are flight attendants trying to maintain safety and comfort for passengers, but, in many cases, they don't even receive their full pay while the plane is on the ground. If there is a delay, remember that it affects them, too. A friendly hello and a thank you when they bring you something is just common decency. Second, try not to overuse the call button. If you need something minor, it's best to get up if you can and ask (if the seatbelt sign isn't on). Third, don't leave garbage in your seat-back pocket or on the floor. Finally, while you're trying to help out and avoid being labeled a VIP, here are five drinks flight attendants don't want you to order.